Why Wait for Middle Age to Become Happy?
Learning social and emotional skills improves kids' chances for early success and happiness
Jun 01, 2010
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Submitted by: Ginny Deerin
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A new study based on Gallup polling, published in The New York Times, finds that people start to get happier around age 50. Enjoyment and happiness rises steadily for 25 years after that point. The survey measured something called "global well-being."
We already know from major advances in the neuroscience of learning, that teaching kids social and emotional skills helps them find success and happiness. So why not start in the early years?
That's what WINGS does.
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Middle Aged Happiness
I first learned about this little known nugget of info in church. I actually wasn't surprised because it seemed to me that people have to learn happiness. I think we have to be coached to find positives because complaining and negativity come more naturally to us. However, I believe that it takes people like the Wings founder Ginny, and the incredible staff of Wings to teach this to younger generations.
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Manage Stress Early On
Perhaps people feel satisfied because by then, you typically have a family, children are grown, and have a stable job. But the article also stated that worry is something people experience and dies down as you get older because there are less things to worry about. WINGS teaches kids how to handle worry and stress early on by doing yoga activities, making stress balls, and playing breathing games. Kids also make worry jars where they write down all their worries on strips of paper and put them in a jar and close the lid. Once you practice these techniques, you use them often and deal with your stress better.
Happiness
I completely agree with Christy. Growing up, people find it difficult to manage stress piled up from school, work, drama, becoming an adult, and indecisiveness about many things. Most of the time, this all becomes too much for people in their younger years to handle. Adults have been through more and experienced more so they have learned how to manage stress and have true happiness. Having a family and a stable job definitely helps fill those empty spots in a person's life. WINGS is a great program for kids to learn different techniques to manage problems such as stress and hopefully discover happiness before the average age of 50.
All of these techniques, I'm
All of these techniques, I'm all to familiar with when we teach them to the kids. However, I think its funny that I occasionally find myself being sucked into my pit of negativity and forget to put the techniques into practice.